Hi, it's unprofessional not to have a relationship with each child. For your setting's planning & provision to be child centered it needs to know their interests and circumstances so that everyone's able to support a child's welfare and well-being. The children come to you from a family that itself belongs to your community. Where there's a commitment towards the positive outcomes of children and local prosperity the community's youngest are hugely important. What happens in your setting are first steps to showing a child & their family how vauled they are and how high a priority promoting a sense of belonging is.
The barriers associated with EAL and with only 4/5/6 weeks attendance at a new setting all adds to the children needing secure attachments - it's what supports independance, confidence, resilience, self esteem.
Why attachment is important
Recognising unprofessional practice safeguards children.
Can you ask your manager for the exact, the most specific reason why they feel what's happening is unprofessional?
What are they worried about?
What is making them feel so uncomfortable?
An allegation being made?
Your conduct or aspects of conduct?
Policies & procedures guide what happens in both these situations.
An allegation can be made at any time so knowing what to do, who to contact and what's involved in the process is good practice.
Concerns regarding professional conduct need to be addressed through the correct procedures - whistleblowing, grievance, compaints? Your manager will have a duty to safeguard you as well as the children and the setting - you can raise a concern about how the children are being physically handled and what their emotional responses are, parents can raise concerns and your manager/colleagues can raise a concern about your relationship with a or the child/ren.
Is there a cultural perspective involved that maybe feels children have an inate ability to be confident and for that confidence & independance to happen a child needs to be solitary or have emotional & physical distance from others.
Do they feel that secure attachment is dependancy and that dependancy is damaging?
Do they feel children aren't gaining the most from the the setting whilst a need to be near you exists.
Would you be able to ask if you can find some local training opportunities that explore child attachment and well-being?
Do you have any links with your local authority and their children & family or Early years services? It's possible they'll have access to EAL expertise that you'll find helpful.
If you're active in the planning cycle can you demonstrate how your close attachment's are enabling the children's learning eg. outside with you children explore with contentment and motivation, colleagues join in to expand on the children's discoveries, support their learning, development and whole group relationships? Inside, tabletop activities that focus on supporting communication, language & literacy are enjoyed. Card games like snap, sorting, matching & threading beads, dough, jigsaws, books. Floor play that involves building, construction, music, role play & dress up areas?
Early Years -
supporting children learning english as an additional language 2007 from archived DoE. Page 7 identifies the 'silent phase' of EAL children that might be causing concern. Page 8 details the importance of secure trusting relationships and gives evidence to the opportunities that you have to build relationships with the children's parents, that ultimately bring their first language into the setting and take English back into their home.
The publication contains eyfs 2008 information - eyfs 2012
Activities to support children with EAL
Hugs, I hope you can resolve it soon, if you want to read about how others whistleblowing policies work for them a
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this policy will help xx