good evening! Thanks for your comments, its good to know that people empathise with me! Wasp - theres alot of us who think the same about that, maybe there should be some kind of petition... I have spoken to my assessor a few times, he knows thatI am not happy, he is very kind but i get the feeling he wants to get as many students through as quick as poss, hes also quite new to the job so is probably very 'by the book'; also hes an in house assessor, we all have to have him as our boss says so!!!!!!! I do enjoy being with the children just not v happy with my place of work... Anyway, off out 2mo to an adventure park with my family so will have fun! Life is for living