hi Mockingbird - I'm on the same thing I've created a table with each behaviour strategy and it's pros and cons.
I have included:
providing an alternative
tactical ignoring of negative behaviour
distraction and diversion
positive reinforcement
time out
modelling
rewards and incentives
boundary setting
reflection - the child
giving responsibility
warning systems - such as cards or traffic lights
hope this helps and good luck!
best wishes
Mrs Noah