how could you get a child prepared for and used to the new baby?
you would talk about the baby growing and the bump where the baby will sleep what it will be like when its coming etc also look at books about a new sibling with the child, and try to prepare them as much as possible. near the due date if the child is going to stay at grandmas then make sure they know they are going etc also taking the child to get a gift for and see the new baby is a good idea, a small gift from the baby to the child also helps the child feel happier. telling the child about babies care routienes making sure you give the child some attention allowing the child to help with the baby, looking at the childs old photos etc encouraging the child to take an interest in the baby making everything very posative, expecting the child to digress a little and to show unwanted behaviour...
sorry just a quick answer hope this gives some ideas
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