Resilient children should be supported by parents, schools and carers as they usually show signs of being hopeful and possess high self worth, they feel special and appreciated and have learned to set realistic goals and expectations. They have developed the ability to solve problems and make decisions independently and are more likely not is hard on them self if they make mistakes or come into hardships. Most resilient children are aware of their weaknesses and vulnerabilities but they also recognize their strong point and talents. They developed effective interpersonal skills with peers and adults and are able to seek out assistance and guidance in appropriate ways including asking for help when it is required without feeling like they lack knowledge. Parents can support their child’s resilience by being realistic of the goals they set for their child with regard to their age, development etc, showing them affection, love and praise for their efforts even if they didn’t have the expected outcome, a child should never feel as though they have let their parents down and that it’s better to try something than to win. Communicating and listening to a child is important and they should never be interrupted as this would be negative and may appear to them that what they are saying lacks importance. Resilience in children helps them be confident in trying new things, confidence in themselves, ability to be independent and a good sense of self identity.
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