Well that says it all.They are in desparate need of help.Mybe you should mention that you would appreciate some sort of token even a pint of milk as you have so much experience and no matter what they are gaining from you.Chloe dont let them put on you.
AND A FISH IS NOT JUST A FISH ITS A LIVING THING AND PART OF THE FAMILY. No my dear Im not shouting at you just trying to prove why you were/are upset.I have a goldfish ,yes at my age.I feed him daily and hes so tame actually jumps out of the water when he sees me coming especially at feed time. Maby its cause he/she thinks Im spooky,i hope its love.So chin andGIN up.lol.