Thanks for the help.
Farleys, I was so shocked to read what had happened to you!
I just have to approach from a slightly different tack with my kiddies being adopted! I did manage to fob Raymond off the first time he asked (on the first ever night he stayed over with us during introductions!!!) by telling him that because DH and I couldn't actually have children of our own we didn't know and we would find out and get back to him!!! :blush: The lies we parents sometimes tell!!
