if you say to a child which toy would you like you are asking them to process 20 30 choices if you say would you like a construction toy down you are asking them to choose from a selection if you say would you like lego or stickle brick etcetc. each stage can cope with a slightly wider choice but we need to make them feel safe and secure and not overwhelm them with a choice. imagine yourself in a sweet ship being told what would you like to eat first! too many choices!
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