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Unread 06-03-2011, 10:36 PM
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Hello

Elements that hinder the attachment process:
Unplanned pregnancy
Debt/Poverty
Relationship breakdown
Bereavement
Substance alcohol misuse
Illness during pregnancy
Heakth scares for baby during pregnancy
Previous infant death in family
Lack of extended family support
History of abuse/poor parenting
Difficult birth/complications
Ill or difficult baby
Inability to to satisfy child in relation to feeding.
Depression/isolation
Unrealistic expectations of pregnancy/birth/parenthood
Being pressured into having a baby.

This list is from attachment training, hope it helps, I have the elements that promote good attachments too if you need them!
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