we had a ceremony...we were based in a church hall at the time so the vicar came in and officiated..we got the children making invites..choosing dressing up clothes...making flowers...and then a few biscuits and things for the reception...we even got the older ones to make the vows ie I will share my toys with you,I will try and be kind...it was a very emotional event and the parents came too..the bride and groom were wonderful...and natuirally throwing confetti came high on the list of things that just had to be done!!