lol .. loo-lar that doesn't sound confused at all
My driving instructor used to tell me don't just use your eyes to check the mirrors ... make a point of moving your head to show the test instructor you are actually checking !!!
Besides the fact I failed
lol, this sounds much like that !
Being able to give time to listen to the Children naturally is perfect, but by knowing why you're listening is how you can guide the communications and actions to an outcome that hopefully everyone involved is happy with.
If that reinforces values for why you respect their individuality they'll find it reinforces their values as well
Has your assessor or tutor given you any pointers to research or follow up for this ?