Hi, resolving conflict with colleagues can be through refletion, mediation or following a grievance procedure.
conflict at work from acas. This useful reading is from the USA's VA NSBA site -
dealing with conflict
For the second, do you have an appraisal system at the setting - ongoing or annual? this is one method that enables you to talk about your professional development, it has the potentially to be accurate as being paper based or electronic will be evidence of your progress and maybe linked to SMART objectives?
hugs xx