thankyou both for that......................and I'll try not to think of grandad!! I sent the mother a letter tonight, sayingI'm sorry she's upset and that when she's had a chance to calm down and think about it i hope she will bring her little boy back, and she'll realise i truly only had his best interests at heart,But i also told her that i will only speak to her from now on and that if her dad comes down he will have to behave because i won't tolerate him upsetting the children, staff or me any more.We'll see,i'm certain he won't be back but at least i have tried to explain.
so i'm going to try to get some sleep now, very nervous but i know i'll be fine this time.....................and 2 consultants, i can hardly believe my luck!! NNGb and catch you all again really soon xxx
Thanks for caring..............