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Mockingbird 06-03-2011 06:29 PM

Attachments
 
Hi all. I've hit a brick wall now... Any help appreciated, thankyou

Q. Other factors that affect the attachments children form..

So far, i have

A child's temperament (outgoing or shy)
Background history (traumatic experiences)
Children who have additional needs (Disability and learning difficulties)
Family environment (breakdown in families-separation, drug-use, alcohol-use, neglect)
A child's feelings/emotions (Anxiety, distress, fear)

There must be more... Help!!!! :-)

lyn c 06-03-2011 06:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mockingbird (Post 38016)
Hi all. I've hit a brick wall now... Any help appreciated, thankyou

Q. Other factors that affect the attachments children form..

So far, i have

A child's temperament (outgoing or shy)
Background history (traumatic experiences)
Children who have additional needs (Disability and learning difficulties)
Family environment (breakdown in families-separation, drug-use, alcohol-use, neglect)
A child's feelings/emotions (Anxiety, distress, fear)

There must be more... Help!!!! :-)

Hi
I recently have completed a communication course (lets get talking) and they said unless you ave a good attchment to your key child it will delay them communicating and all areas will then be delayed (which makes sense) but whether this is relevant i don't know. Have you looked up bowlby (attachment theory) might give you more ideas.

Lynne

Mockingbird 06-03-2011 07:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lyn c (Post 38018)
Hi
I recently have completed a communication course (lets get talking) and they said unless you ave a good attchment to your key child it will delay them communicating and all areas will then be delayed (which makes sense) but whether this is relevant i don't know. Have you looked up bowlby (attachment theory) might give you more ideas.

Lynne

I've been looking at attachments and theories all day.. Lol
Which i think is why my brain is frazzled tonight. x

Thankyou

tutu 06-03-2011 07:40 PM

changing key persons
poor management
untrained staff, in attachement that is
moving staff around

twiggy321 06-03-2011 07:56 PM

attachement
 
hi i will send you a private message about a course i went on all about attachment it is in powerpoint hope it helps i found it very interesting and underlined all that i try to do.

Mockingbird 06-03-2011 10:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by twiggy321 (Post 38023)
hi i will send you a private message about a course i went on all about attachment it is in powerpoint hope it helps i found it very interesting and underlined all that i try to do.

Thankyou :-)

derynjoe 06-03-2011 10:36 PM

Hello

Elements that hinder the attachment process:
Unplanned pregnancy
Debt/Poverty
Relationship breakdown
Bereavement
Substance alcohol misuse
Illness during pregnancy
Heakth scares for baby during pregnancy
Previous infant death in family
Lack of extended family support
History of abuse/poor parenting
Difficult birth/complications
Ill or difficult baby
Inability to to satisfy child in relation to feeding.
Depression/isolation
Unrealistic expectations of pregnancy/birth/parenthood
Being pressured into having a baby.

This list is from attachment training, hope it helps, I have the elements that promote good attachments too if you need them!

Mockingbird 06-03-2011 11:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by derynjoe (Post 38033)
Hello

Elements that hinder the attachment process:
Unplanned pregnancy
Debt/Poverty
Relationship breakdown
Bereavement
Substance alcohol misuse
Illness during pregnancy
Heakth scares for baby during pregnancy
Previous infant death in family
Lack of extended family support
History of abuse/poor parenting
Difficult birth/complications
Ill or difficult baby
Inability to to satisfy child in relation to feeding.
Depression/isolation
Unrealistic expectations of pregnancy/birth/parenthood
Being pressured into having a baby.

This list is from attachment training, hope it helps, I have the elements that promote good attachments too if you need them!

That would be great thankyou :-)

derynjoe 06-04-2011 05:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mockingbird (Post 38035)
That would be great thankyou :-)


The elements that promote the attachment process:
A planned welcomed pregnancy
Good health and good post natal care
Extended family support
Time out for employment
Positive birth experience
Mothers own positive experiences of being parented
Stability/community/friendships
Time for baby and self
Realistic expectation of birth
Settled baby
Availability of support groups & post natal groups/infant massage etc.

Hope this helps

Mockingbird 06-04-2011 11:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by derynjoe (Post 38054)
The elements that promote the attachment process:
A planned welcomed pregnancy
Good health and good post natal care
Extended family support
Time out for employment
Positive birth experience
Mothers own positive experiences of being parented
Stability/community/friendships
Time for baby and self
Realistic expectation of birth
Settled baby
Availability of support groups & post natal groups/infant massage etc.

Hope this helps

Thanks :-)


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